Saturday, February 11, 2012

Rubhim

Sorry for the delay. I lost one post because I forgot to save and I was stuck on another post for a long time before I realized it wasn't something I wanted to write about.
I know you like the sexy posts describing an erotic massage the best. There will be more of those I am sure. I just feel very repetitive when I write those because in reality they are all very similar experiences.  Kind of like a website someone turned me onto called Rubhim.com. A new client asked me if our session was going to be like a session on rubhim.com and I told him I didn't know, but most people like it. After the session (he seemed pleased by the way), I looked up the web site and was quite entertained for a few hours.
For those who have not seen it, the web site presents massage sessions with a supposed professional masseur coming into a hot studs home for the first time to give him a massage. After a few minutes of "professional" chat about muscles they get to the massage. There is the usual towel slips and accidental touches and about 12 minutes of rubbing for sex in a variety of positions on the massage table. Each video is around 45 mins and follows the same routine. They have a couple of different masseurs, sometimes the client is supposed to be straight, sometimes the masseur tops the client, sometimes the client tops the masseur. However, after you seen those different variations, the only real difference is the actors.
That is sometimes what I fear when I write this blog, same stories, just different clients and sometimes my writing is a lot better than others. I would like to write more about the other parts of my work like what the clients talk about, what are the plusses and minuses in my work, how do I make ends meet, what do I do when I am not massaging people, etc. but I know that very few of you are interested in that aspect of the blog. Also I would love to hear questions and comments but I don't get many of those. My blog has a relatively high daily visit rate but I think most people are just looking to see the sexy posts. Anyway, I will write about what I feel when I feel and you can read it or not.
Back to Rubhim. I must say that the site seems to have become very popular. Since that first inquiry I have received several requests for a massage like that. My response has become rather flippant "Depends, do you look like the clients in those videos and are you willing to pay me double my listed fees?" One of these days I will get an affirmative reply to that and I have no idea what I will do next. Just so you know, there may be bodyworkers out there doing precisely that type of service, but they will charge high call boy fees for that type of work and you will not get anything that resembles a real massage. Even in the videos, the masseurs talk a decent game before they start but they really have no massage skills. They use enough oil to drown a client and just slap and slide all over the place.
The reason I have such a high repeat client rate is that I give a genuine massage. A lot of my business in non-sensual work, my sensual clients get a few less minutes of "normal" massage and a few minutes of legit work on their genitals. Occasionally when the work has gone further I still make sure that the client gets the massage they paid for.
So if you ask a therapist about rubhim.com, don't be surprised at the flippant response or conversely if they say that is exactly what they do, expect to pay rentboy prices. 


Don't be afraid to ask questions, I would be happy to answer any in private or on the blog. 


- Jack