Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Why don't erotic masseurs and escorts want to kiss?

Not only do most men who work in with erotic energy consider kissing to be one of the most personal experiences that many choose to only share with their significant other, they know it is also the easiest way to get sick. And I don't just mean a cold, flu, or strep throat:

Love is in the air
Germs are everywhere
Kissers beware
Of infections you can share.
We know that kisses of passion can lead to one thing or another. But did you know that kissing can also lead to an infectious disease? Mononucleosis, or mono, is the prototypical “kissing disease,” and sexually-transmitted diseases are infamous following some romantic interludes. But did you know that there are many infections that can be spread through mere kissing alone?
Infectious Diseases in Saliva
Infectious diseases are spread through several routes of transmission. “Oral transmission” refers to spreading of microbes through saliva, foods or drinks. When a person accidentally consumes microbe-contaminated items, such as saliva during kissing, the swallowing action of the tongue wipes the microbes against the back of the throat, allowing the microbe to enter the body. Infections, such as mononucleosis (the kissing disease), caused by Epstein-Barr virus (EBV), and cytomegalovirus (CMV) are spread via oral transmission from virus-containing saliva.
Other infectious microbes that spread through saliva do so by sticking to the inner surface of the cheeks and mouth, the tongue, or teeth. An example is the bacterium Streptococcus, which can cause an array of infections, including gum disease and strep throat.
An important thing to keep in mind is that the surfaces of the respiratory tract (nose, mouth, and throat) are continuous and made up of similar tissues. As a result, microbes that are found in the saliva can generally be found in other parts of the respiratory tract, including the nose and throat. Therefore, even colds and flus (and other respiratory infections) can potentially be spread through the saliva.
Infectious Diseases from Mouth Sores
Cold sores
Cold sores are caused by Herpes Simplex Virus-1 (HSV-1). In contrast to infections spread through the saliva, HSV-1 is spread through open cold sores on the lips or near the mouth. Although the infection is contagious through all stages of a cold sore, the infection is most contagious when the sore is open and leaking fluid.
Hand, foot, and mouth disease
Hand, foot, and mouth disease, caused by Coxsackie virus, is another infectious disease that is spread through open sores in the mouth. This infection is common in kids, especially those in daycare or preschool settings. It spreads primarily via the fecal-oral route, a common problem among daycares, since changing of diapers goes on all day.
But canker sores are not infectious.
In contrast to cold sores and coxsackie virus blisters, canker sores have no infectious disease origin and cannot be spread through the saliva or kissing.
What about HIV and Hepatitis B Virus?
HIV and hepatitis B Virus (HBV) are blood-borne and sexually-transmitted infections that have been found in the saliva. Despite the presence of HIV in saliva, there have never been any reports of HIV transmission via this route. In contrast, transmission of hepatitis B virus through saliva has been well documented, as well as hepatitis A and C.
Natural Microbial Defense Mechanisms in the Mouth
Saliva has a natural cleansing role, provided by its flushing activity. Other antimicrobial defenses in the saliva include antibodies and other antimicrobial proteins (e.g., lysozyme), and normal mouth flora (the “good” bacteria that prevents growth of “bad” bacteria).
The spread of infectious microbes through the saliva can occur when natural resistance in the mouth is reduced. For example, gum infections can occur in people with vitamin C deficiencies, and thrush, caused by Candida yeast infections, is more likely to occur in people who have been taking antibiotics. People who are dehydrated have reduced salivary flow and four times more bacteria in their mouths.
Preventing Kissing Diseases
Be careful who you kiss.
Source:
Mims CA, Playfair JH, Roitt, IM, Wakelin D, Williams R, and Anderson RM. Medical Microbiology. ©1993. Mosby-Year Book Europe Limited. London, UK.

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Today Sexy Guy

So today was one of those rare days when the client is so much more beautiful than I and yet seems to find me very sexy.
"John" contacted me through a gay massage site and set up a time for a massage. There was not a lot of chatting but I was able to see his profile. There was no photo and it had not been updated in a few years but it appeared that his age was 30 and his description was "fit and trim."
He showed up on time and I was surprised to see a very fit and trim black man about age 30. He seemed pleased to see me and hurried in. I asked the usual questions about aches and pains and as he tells me about his different little aches and his recent activities in sports and his new job as a waiter while he was starting to undress. I must say for a moment I was amazed. His body was amazing. He was muscular and compact, his waist was tiny, his torso a V, his ass was the most amazing bubble butt that I had ever seen and that's saying a lot. His legs were powerful and his cock was huge, his nuts were large and shaved. In general his genitals were far too large for his body. He stood at maybe 5'7" and his waist could not have been more than 26" yet soft his cock was over 6" and fat to boot with balls the size of two large eggs. His butt was also far too large for his light though muscular frame sticking straight out behind him these large full melons defying gravity. He was not at 0 body fat, which made him even more attractive for as the muscles were sitting there in plain view he did not have that "oh for god's sake eat something" look about him, the little fat he had softening the edges and making him approachable.
I told him to climb on the table while I went to wash my hands. I also needed to adjust the erection in my shorts. I told him there was a towel to cover himself if he chose but when I returned he had tossed it aside. He was lying on his stomach as was instructed and one of my favorite sights was in front of me: the curves of a muscular man lying on a flat plane made all the more sensual with the contrast of his dark skin against the cream color of the sheets on the table.
Now there had been no discussion of any erotic or sensual work and generally speaking, most of my younger good looking clients are not really looking for anything more than a good thorough massage, maybe a happy ending with their eyes closed, thinking of someone else perhaps. Even in this state, with the client nude and undraped with legs slightly parted there is still no sure bet of sensual work. His penis was not visible between his legs and I adjusted myself once more and took a deep breath and started my job.
As per usual I start working on John's back, amazed again at the V shape of his torso and tiny waist. His muscle are tight and I give him a deep tissue massage. I check with him often to make sure the pressure is OK. He makes no inappropriate move towards me and I give him a couple of chances. When I work his shoulders with his arm draped over my leg, his forearm milometers from my hard cock, his hand draped on my calf - no advances were made. I work my way to his lower back and hips. Letting my hands graze over those luminous globes of ass.  I work his back hard for 30 full minutes full minutes before I do a light touch over it with just my finger tips. I then massage his scalp and run a finger down his spine to the top of the crack of his ass and back. I check with him to be sure all OK. He says he's doing great. I move to his feet and he sticks a hand beneath his body, raises his hips and shoves his huge erection down between his legs. I am not a size queen but I can be impressed. If his genitals looked too large before, now with a full erection it borderlines on absurd. It is a strong thick uncircumcised cock, the kind with the thick veins showing all over because it is trying to grow even larger. So at least I know I have him aroused. ;-)
I work on his foot and leg trying hard to focus on the task at hand. His calf muscles are well developed and tight. I make sure that he gets the best massage possible and work his tight muscles. I work my way up his leg to the base of his ass. His legs part slightly more and I work the inside of his thighs, it is impossible not to graze his dick since it is filling the space between his legs completely. I bring his foot up and pull his knee outwards and lay the leg back down to open up his groin to massage the adductor muscles. I lean over his ass and run my hands under his leg through his groin, hitting his hard dick and large balls with each stroke, my nose right over the cavern between the mountainous globes of his ass. I lengthen the stroke so that my finger can rub his taint and eventually the rosebud of his ass.  His hand is now right at my crotch and starts to rub it slightly. I repeat the actions far longer than is needed but eventually stop and return his leg to a normal position and check to see how he is doing. "Great" he answers. I then mention that I forgot to ask if he was interested in my being nude - an offer I make to members of the website where he found me. "Yes, that would be nice." I undress and with a smile, repeat the actions on the other leg.
I reach the portion of the massage where I get to focus on that giant Bubble Butt. I truly wish I had taken a picture of it for you. With his small waist and low percentage of body fat his ass stood tall and proud above every other part of his body as he lay on stomach. I started working on the cheek opposite from the side of the table from where I am standing so I am bending over his body and my erection is poking his hip, his hand finds it and wraps around it. I massage his glute deep and hard using both hands like kneading dough and then working across the fibrous muscles with my elbow. I then dig into the crevasse of  his ass stroke from the center out, lightly stroking the rose bud as I do. Then stroke from the top of his crack down over the rosebud, taint, balls to the end of that long thick cock and work my way back. I repeat this action again and again while he strokes my cock. I smile and switch sides of the table and repeat.
I now do a few strokes from shoulders to toes and back, again casually grazing his ass crack. I apply a bit more cream to his rosebud and slowly massage it, his giant cock is twitching and leaking. I lean down to his ear and ask if he would like a prostate massage. "I have never had one but would be willing to try it."
I add a bit more lube and work a single finger into his ass, working between those meaty globes. I go slowly and find his prostate and slowly start rubbing it, his cock is throbbing and leaking copious amounts of pre-cum. After a few moments I withdraw and add a little more lube and a second finger. I again work the fingers slowly in and massage the prostate, I also start working the fingers in circles to widen his sphincter. I check to be sure that his cock is still hard and give it a stroke or two with my free hand, it is like a rock and still oozing. I remove my two fingers and apply still more lube and slowly work three fingers in. I go slowly, stopping occasionally to allow him to adjust to the size. While waiting for him to adjust he suddenly shove his ass up onto my fingers, I follow his ass as it goes down and continue to shove forward until my fingers are completely buried in his ass. I again hold for a few moments then start massaging his prostate and then start fucking him with my hand. I again do this probably longer than needed but it is great fun. I take my hand out and clean it and ask him if he was alright. "That was amazing!" he responds.
"I am going to climb onto the table and work on your back, I promise not to do anything unsafe while I am up there."
"Alright"
I climb onto the table between his legs and start doing long strokes from his feet to his shoulders, my dick sliding up and over his ass cheeks as I go. Work his lower back and then start with my forearms on his ass checks and slide them up to between his shoulder blades. This angle causes my cock slide over his balls and stick deep in the crevasse of his ass. I am careful not to apply to much pressure on his ass so as not to freak him out but keep the dick there for a few moments. I bring my body back and stroke forward again over his back  with my fore arms again and like before, keep my dick knocking at the gates but with no pressure at all. I do not want to fuck him (alright, I do, but I won't) but I want him to think that I might. I again bring my body back and stretch forward again this time lying my body on top his with my dick lying between his ass cheeks with the head at the top of his ass crack. My hands reach down and grasp his hands and I hump his ass ever so slightly, his rises to greet my dick. I stiffen my body against his and squeezes his ass against my dick. I rise up and give some light full body strokes before I lay atop of him again and repeat the previous moves. I climb off and towel him down and do full body feather strokes and ask him to turn over.
I offer him a drink of water and he reclines on his back when he is through. Those melons that stuck up so proudly before are now forcing his crotch high into the air, his long uncut cock has a natural upward curve that I had not noticed before and the head of it alone is touching his abs well above his belly button. I start work on his chest and his head is straining to feel my own hardon as I stand at the head of the table. He finds my erection with his right ear and smiles as he leans his head into it, snuggling with it. His cock jump a bit each time I tease one of his nipples - I make a mental note of that.
I work my way down to his abs, doing circles over his belly and my hands knocking his stiff cock as I rub further down into his pubes with each circumference. I do a stroke up his cock, following the natural curve and amazed at it's length and girth. I follow the curve down again and over his balls down to his rosebud then back up, cupping his large balls and puling them tight, tickling them with the finger tips of my other hand. He is still oozing pre-cum but I want a bit more lube so I add a bit and some again at his hole so I continue to play there. I should make this last but I am hot and just want to jerk him till he cums. His hand is on my cock and he is gently jerking me. I take his cock with both hands and start sliding them both up and down, one following the other, the lower hand sliding pass his ball and stroking his hole before coming up. He releases my cock and puts his hand behind my back, reaching as far as he can as if he is trying to get his arm around me. I step towards the head of the table and his hand keeps reaching around my back, I take another step towards his head while still pumping his dick with both hands. He now can get his hand around hips and pulls me towards his head, I allow myself to be pulled but continue to pump his dick. he sits up a bit then leans over and engulfs my dick in his mouth. This beautiful specimen of young manhood wants nothing more than to suck the hell out of my dick and suck the hell out of it he does. My rule is I don't cum with my clients and my mind is racing a mile minute trying to get my mind off of the grade A blow job I am getting, he is sucking with such gusto and determination, his hands wandering around my ass and up to my nips. I reach with my right hand and get a finger up his ass again and long stroke his cock with my left. I am hoping he will cum before I can no longer hold out but my hips are doing there own thing now and I am pumping his mouth and he is loving it. I take the finger out of his ass and use it to cup the head of his dick and I stroke the length with my other hand, his hips are pumping as well, I know it won't be much longer. His cock is so hard and I feel each vein as it slides through my hand, his mouth is velvety warm around my cock.
In a last ditch effort I take my hand off his cock head and press down hard on his pubic bone, this applies pressure to the bladder and sends him over the edge. A fountain of thick milky white cum shoots from his cock covering his chest and abs. His body heaves with enthusiasm of his orgasm and his ass muscles tense and contract thrusting his groin into the air over and over. He doesn't let go of cock, he keeps sucking on it like there is no tomorrow, like it is the last cock on earth and if he were to let go there would be no other chances. I am perilously close to cumming I try to with draw and his hand claw at my hips. His orgasm subsides and I take his hands in mine and remove them from my hips and withdraw my cock. Orgasm averted. I take a towel and wipe him down. I finish the massage with stretches and long feathery strokes, he reaches for and holds onto my cock when ever it it near.
When it is over and he is draped in a towel, I ask him how he feels. "Amazing, that was a great massage, exactly what I was looking for." He gets up and dresses, his cock now soft is still too long for his body and his balls too large and his ass full and proud. He takes my business card and a few extra. "That was great, I am definitely going to recommend you to my friends and I will be back again for sure." He tips me well and I thank him. I smile as I watch him leave and think about being able to do it all again. ;-)

DADT is dead


DADT is done. Just a quick note to say how thrilled I am about this. Now remember that when Don't Ask Don't Tell was signed into law, it was actually a step forward. Instead of an all out ban on homosexuals in the military, the law was meant to say it's none of our business, but please keep it under wraps. Huge step forward at the time.
Unfortunately it ended up discharging even more men and women than before the ban. Not to mention it was incredibly hard for men and women to serve silently.
But now it is all over and there is much to celebrate. This is a big step forward, though we are still far behind many other countries and gay men and women still suffer a number inequalities under the law in the US. Any thoughts on how long until Federal Recognition of same sex marriage?