I have received a couple of private comments about my post called “On a More Positive Note.” Apparently some believe that only a handsome young stud makes my day worth while. Not true. It is nice to see a young body once in a while, like looking at a fine piece of art, it is not what makes a session good for me.
First of all, I find all kinds of men attractive, if given the chance. It is not the outside that appearance that is important as much as it is their attitude. A bad attitude or being treated like a piece of meat is what often ruins a session.
Case in point; yesterday I had a client who was about to turn 70 (I know because he told me). He has been to me before and I know that he wants a sensual bodywork session with both of us nude. He is gay, though he came out late in life after retiring from the Air force. He has a life partner with whom he is very happy, but he still like to get a sensual massage from time to time.
Now, if I were out cruising for someone to have a random sex act with, I would not head immediately to the 70 year old guys, not that there is anything wrong with them, just not necessarily my first choice. This does not mean in a situation like bodywork that we both won’t have a really good time.
He enters and asks me how I am doing, how my partner is, have I been able to take some time and enjoy the summer, you know, takes a real interest in my life. We chit chat and hug like old friends. I make sure to ask if there is anything special physically that he needs worked on as he undresses. I excuse myself to wash my hands and he gets on the table.
I return, he is lying quietly in position and waiting. I ask if he is comfortable, he is. I undress and go to work. He is respectful of the fact that I have to move around a lot and never reaches out to grab me, but waits patiently until my leg or whatever has made contact with his hand for more than an instant. His touch towards me is gentle and filled with warmth. He comments on the warmth of my touch and the softness of my skin. I know that he aroused because of his hip grinding against the table, his touch and kindness towards me has me aroused as well. I am still able to do my job since he is not being over aggressive. My erection comes and goes depending on my focus. He is very responsive when my touch becomes more erotic, letting me know that he is enjoying my touch, and this in turn excites me. I spend a good deal of time on his butt; I remember from our previous experiences that he really enjoys this. My goal is to keep him as aroused as possible with out any premature ejaculation, while still making sure he get the therapeutic effects of a good session. He gently strokes my penis as I focus on his prostate. I climb on the table to work his back, allowing my penis to occasionally graze his butt. As I reach to work between his shoulders, my penis is lying between his butt cheeks. He moans softly and works his hips slowly against the table. I lay upon his body, mine covering his, letting him feel my full weight upon him. His fingers interlace with mine and again he moans softly.
It is time for him to turn over. He is very erect and leaking pre-cum. I am erect as well. I go to the head of the table to work his chest, leaning over his head. He reaches up and places my erect penis on his forehead and puts his arms back on the table. He lifts his chest as I graze his nipples. I move to work on his stomach and his hand again finds my penis and slowly and gently strokes it. I gently run my hand down his penis and over his balls before I switch sides. I rub his stomach now from the other side, working in circles, my hand sliding beneath his erection with each stroke as he continues to slowly work mine.
It is time for the most erotic part of the massage. I start down at his anus, gently stroking the exterior of the rosebud and then working the perineum. I move up to his balls, grasping them tightly in one hand to stretch the skin taught and working them gently with the fingernails of my other hand. I stroke up his penis and continue up to his nipples. I then slide my hands back down stroking his penis once before going back to the anus and repeating the process a few times. He continues to pleasure my erection. I focus on his prostate for a few minutes. This process is not for everyone, a lot of men find it too intense, this gentleman appears to love it. His penis continues to drool, mine is achingly hard.
It is time for the release, I move my right hand to stroke his penis as my left hand wanders from his nipples down to his balls, occasionally stoking his inner thighs and finally applying pressure to his pubic bone. He is thrashing on the table, I know that he will pop at any moment; his hand is still stroking my penis and has picked up in intensity. Suddenly this calm man is screaming and moaning as his penis erupts sending semen flying over his chest and stomach, his hand is just squeezing my penis now. His hips thrust upwards again and again.
Once it is over and I am wiping his semen up, he starts apologizing. He is sorry for the noise he made, I say it’s OK. He is sorry for the mess, not a problem. He is sorry that I didn’t release, I tell him that I didn’t want to, the session is about him, not me. He then tells me that he really needed that, an orgasm that reached to the bottom of his soul. I am glad that I could help and tell him how impressed I am with the amount of his ejaculate. He laughs. I finish the massage, working on his legs, arms, neck, face and finally a light stroking of his entire body. I let him know about where I found stress and compliment him on how well he is keeping his body hydrated. He sits up to drink some water and then hugs me, and I hug him back. It was a truly wonderful experience for both of us. We dress and chit chat some more before he pays (a good tipper, thank you) and hug once more before he walks out the door. I look forward to his next visit, as I do for the vast majority of my clients.
Below are the stats of a poll on a male massage group site regarding prostate massage.
- Jack
How do you feel about prostate massage being a part of the massage experience?
Love it! 38 %
Could take or leave it. 23 %
Hate it! 4 %
I no longer have a prostate, but go ahead anyway. 0 %
Never had a prostate massage so I don't know. 32%
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