Monday, August 6, 2007

My Cliental

So who comes to see a male body worker? Well, anyone who wants to have some good male contact. Like who?

Well, most of my clients are married or partnered. No judgment there, they just are. There are a few who are single as well. Again, no judgment there, they just are. Well over half are in a relationship with a woman, most happily so. Some are not, again, no judgment. For many, I am there first sensual contact with another man. For others, I am one among many.

I have a cowboy who drives over 50 miles to come see me. He is in his 20’s and lives on a horse ranch, a true cowboy. I was his first experience with a man. He has a girlfriend that he may marry one day. He just wanted to know what it was like to try something with a guy, he had fantasized about it. So he came to me for a massage with some sensual aspect to it. The first massage he just laid there and received. The next massage he reached out and felt for my penis, just rested his hand on it through my shorts. The third time he wanted to see it and touch it. He looked, he felt, and then he just held on to it, that was that. I give him a normal virgin body work session. A combination of Swedish and Deep Tissue with a little grazing here and there, a thorough glute massage, light touch across the anus and when it is time for the release, manual stroke of the penis with caressing of the balls and occasional tweak of the nipple. It has never gone further and probably never will.

Another client is a middle aged gentleman who fixes computers in his home where he takes care of his aging parents. Before coming to me, he usually went to one of those Korean massage parlors where the girls give a BJ with a $20 tip. He came to see me because he hurt his back and wanted a real massage. I gave him a real massage, properly draped. At the end, he got an erection. He was embarrassed at first, but I asked him if he wanted me to take care of that. He looked at me for a moment and said “That’s not what I came for but if you want….” So I grabbed his penis and started stroking slowly and he said “Y’know that feels really….” He never finished the statement because he was in the throws of orgasm. He then apologized that he couldn’t return the favor and I said with a smile that no one expected him to. He has been a regular client ever since. He sent me an email once worried about what it meant about his sexuality that he would rather come to me than go the Korean girls. I replied that there was no need to worry about who thinks what or what it might mean, if it feels good and doesn’t hurt anyone, just go with it, but I would understand if he decided not to return. He still sees me.

I have a very nice gentleman whom I refer to in my database as Grandpa Walton, it’s just who he reminds me of every time I see him. He has been married for years and years and loves his wife. However he has always had a thing for men as well. For most of his marriage he chose not to do anything about it, his options were limited as well. In modern day America in a large city, there are options for married men. I am a part of those options. He sees me every other week and I give him a full body work session that includes every part of his body. I do it in the nude so he can watch me and can reach out and touch me occasionally, and then he goes home to his wife. He may do other things to satisfy his urges, I don’t know. No judgment from me if he does or does not.

Then there is my Dickensian old man with his maimed limb. He is old and bitter and very rich and very alone. His wife left him taking everything she could. If she left because of his feelings for other men or just because she was tired of his attitude or just because she realized he had about as much money as he would ever be able to make, I don’t know. No one will spend much time with this gentleman unless they are trying to take something from him. His money, his home or one of the hundreds of antiques he talks on and on about, he really has no personal redeeming qualities. The interesting thing is that he perfectly OK with this. He sees our time together as a business transaction. He pays me to rub his body and to release him. I am cheaper than a prostitute. He will try to push the limits and I enforce them. He respects the fact that I have my limits. He is wealthy so he never tips, but he is a regular customer. I also believe that he comes back because no one else will take him more than once.

There are many other stories like a retired Army Major who is married and I am his first experience with a man. There are men who have been in long term relationships with their partners for years and years but just want a little pampering from me. There is a retired mathematician who worked for the Defense Dept who was not allowed to express his sexuality during his career. I have authors, psychologists, architects, porn stars, professors, students, realtors, and a couple of political types and one or two entertainment types. They are old (mostly) and young, fat (mostly) and thin, white (mostly) and not, rich or not (mostly), gay, straight, bi (mostly), short, tall, muscled or not, hairy or not, in short, just guys who want to be touched by other men.

- Jack

2 comments:

Scarpia said...

Thanks for starting this blog. As a massage getter for 20-years (twice monthly), I have often wondered what goes on in the mind of the giver. Your blog clarifies that – at least gives your perspective – which I value for its plain spokeness and honesty. I regret that I didn’t keep a log over the years. Several have given me (5-11, 162, swimmer’s build) more than my money’s worth. Others I have been to only once, usually because it was a clinical experience. They could just as well be kneading dough. Those that I frequent more regularly (that haven’t left town – this is a very transient business) have a special touch and attitude and not all of them do a happy ending – or in your case – a 7th inning stretch. But, I don’t always want that. My preference is a nude massage without a happy ending.

Rare (for me) is finding the nude masseur and almost as rare is the shirtless masseur. Meanwhile, their untucked shirts graze my curled fingers as they work my back. Am I supposed to take that as a cue to ask them to remove their shirt? Or to reach up there and graze their abs? Some are very adept at keeping their thighs and crotches away from the edge of the table. I take that as their signal that they don’t want to be touched. OK, I get it.

Full disclosure – yes, I have been to you twice. Both times I would rate as A+. We really connected on the first visit. After I fondled your equipment (see reference to curled fingers above), I believe that you de-pants-ed yourself, although you kept the tank-top on. On my second visit, you stripped once I was face down on the table. I assumed you remembered our previous experience. I would book you more frequently, but your location is a bit inconvenient. But, I look forward to time number three.

Jack said...

Thanks for the comment, I know now that somebody is reading this. When you come see me, remind me that I have worked nude with you and I will do it again if you like. - Jack